In this semester’s Leadership and Management skills course I was looking for ways that would enable students to dig in deeper and stretch their learning. Each four hour session is designed to be experiential and learning is facilitated by using a combination of virtual simulations, reflection, applying the flipped classroom method, role play, assessments, working out loud and practicing participatory leadership tools.
A key skill set that I have noticed is often lacking in the management domain is the ability to give feedback in a timely and constructive manner.
Working with a class of 24 students from 12 countries you can imagine the differences in perspectives related to this skill. For example:
- From my point of view, a feedback is connected with negative emotions and taking criticism personally, not on the work that one does.
- I grew up in a culture where giving feedback is not the norm. Or if someone is giving you “Feedback”, it it’s usually to make you feel bad or prove they’re better than you are.
- In my experience giving and receiving feedback were not positive experiences for me, for this reason I was scared to be involved in this process.
- Sometimes when we give feedback towards our team members it may affect them from a personal perspective, it’s a very sensitive topic.
To create something that would truly create powerful impact with the students, I reached out to Sarah Schwab the CEO of The Experience Accelerator to ask if we could create a project together that would help the students build their feedback skills into a competence. Sarah was open to the idea and we created a five-part learning journey for the students.
- It began with students logging into The Experience Accelerator to visualize a feedback virtual scenario
- Students were debriefed on the scenario and required to practice giving feedback and recording their interaction.
- Before class students received written feedback on their practice focusing on the areas they had performed well in as well as suggestions on how they could improve.
- At this point the learning went live and students had the opportunity in class to practice by giving, receiving and observing feedback in different scenarios that had been prepared for them. Watch the video
- And finally, students were given the opportunity to write a reflection about what they learned over the course of the assignment
In their reflection papers students expressed their surprise at the power of the exercise:
“I have learned that feedback is not about telling what the person did right or wrong, but about explaining how he or she made the other person feel.” KB
“I realized again how challenging it is when performing the online scenario where it somehow appeared easy when watching the video, but was a totally different story when I had to do my own recordings.” ME
“I would like to say that such an experience was truly helpful for me. I gained a lot of knowledge in terms of feedback, particularly if I want to give an effective feedback, I should always practice and be aware of some key points in order to avoid making mistakes from the very beginning.” SK
Their ability to put into practice a four step feedback model* both virtually and in class during live role play has categorically changed the beliefs’ students had about feedback. Furthermore they now have a toolkit and clear understanding of how to deliver effective constructive feedback.
*Clarify the context, explain using as much detail as possible what happened, explain the impact their action had on the situation and discuss possible steps on how to move forward.